SECRET OF SUCCESS!!

Mostly people think that the secret of success is a money but this is not true. As a matter of fact ,that the secret of success is blaming on one when things go wrong,and doing whatever you can to improve matters.Its human nature human seeks for a success always some people use right way to get it or some use wrong way to achieve it. our youth is also getting success in a different field but this is a bad face of coin that is most of youth is getting this "gold bird" through a bad way or a short cut which is easy to get but its temporary and also doubt full today youth are forgot the norms and values and morally they are going down and down for for sake of get success instantly they are attract towards negativity which create bad image of youth and also impact on society because successful youth is a grantee of successful society but if that success is full of doubts then how come society will success full? famous quote by DONALD WALTER which give a way to think that how our youth can give success.

The Secret of success is willingness to reevaluate your first principles.

so to get success make " respect" because this old proverb give respect take respect if you respect your elders or your teacher or your norms and value you will get success or respect respectively because if you respect your elder's experience or learn from it. Or if you will be punctual you'll be success full consume your time and you it in a good way punctuality give you accuracy or this habit make you closer towards success.If Noah had missed the boat, we wouldn't be here.once a man said life is shorter we make it shortest by wasting time. every minute which we spend worrying about failing is just one min that we have failed to prepare for success.to continue our journey towards success we have to be confident, confidence give glance to our personality confidence on our self, on our skills or our Almighty who wrote our destiny before our birth.Have confidence is like that if you have done a little thing well, you can do a bigger thing well too and also we have to be nice to people on our way up because you will need them on your way down. lastly..

Aspiration is more than ennobling than achievement (ZARATHUSTRA)

because its gives us the map of journey and success inspiration always motivate us towards our goals and aim and also furnishes the music to keep us marching.

In the end i will dedicate this lines to our youth and us

Have you tried once more and failed? Try again!

Has desire your heart assailed? Try again!

Don't give up,have courage still

soon you'll conquer,say,I will!

(Anonymous)

Qoutation courtesy By Google  

To shed crocodile tears....

 

Maya Khan invited on program Frontline with Kamran shahid after facing ban on morning show "subha saware maya k sath". All the authors of this blog are listed their views about the justifications of maya which are as follows:

Anum Khan:

Kamran Shahid k show me jo maya khan ne kia wo sb b ek drama tha q k usne park main ja kr jo chaapa maara agr wo sb drama hota to tv channel wale wo show shuru honay se phle hi bta dete..agr ksi bhi tv channel pe aisa kuch hota hai to wo audience ko gumrahi se bachane k lye phle hi bta dete hain...iski bht si misaal humay mukhtalif tv channels pe dekhne ko milti hain...

Maryam Ather Ali:
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Media mein kuch pta nai chul pata k kya sach hai aur kya 

jhot...maya khan show k baare mein bhi yhi hai but jo kuch bhi hai usne sahi issue ko highlight kya tha han ye uski galti thi k Maya ne us waqt kuch nahi kaha jub usay criticize kya jarha tha or evidence pesh nahi kiye,agar wo itni he suchi thi tu chahe uske channel walo ne mana hi kyu na kya ho usay apna bachao karna chahye tha....kher yhan media ki bhi galti hai k ap ksi ki bhi personal life ko kyun chale gaye media mein sabhi log aese he hote hain ab koi kuch bhi thora sa hi mulk k lye acha kam karna chah rha hai tu foran uski tang khench laynge..

Bakhtawar Mannan:

I personally feel that the anchor "Kamran Shahid" of program "Front line" interviewed Maya Khan just to increase the ratings of his program. And the evidences which Miss Khan showed in the program i think that was all fake.If it was not so, why she not presented it before? Any ways what PEMRA had taken decision i supported it by my heart and soul because Maya Khan voilated the conducts of Journalism.our role is to serve people not to interfere in their personal matters.

Harum Mubarak :

Maya khan wants to come back and for this purpose,she is  playing with her audience and wants thier sympathy.According to above video if those couples are paid or fake so Maya should titled her show with Re-enactment.But be focused on her this sentence "they are paid actors" it means in Frontline with Kmaran shahid they are actually acting..... ;) "you can buy anything from money" .PEMRA had taken a good action against her.

Tahira Qamar:

 Maya khan agar khud ko sahi kehti hain to unho ne us waqt evidence show kyun nai kiye jb ban lagaya gaya?? aur agar ap kisi masley ki taraf logon ko mutawajo karna chahte to is tarha se serious issue ko drama bana kar nai pesh karte..aur society mein is se ziada serious issues hain per unko to wo highlight nai karti. aur kamran shahid ko itne dino baad yaad aaya k maya khan k issue ko phir uthaya jaye jb k is waqt pakistan mein is se kahin ziada serious issues mojood hain jin ki wajha se awam suffer kar rahe hain. is scenario mein maya khan ka issue highlight karne ki koi tuk nai banti jb k ye issue band ho gaya tha. yeh sb bus rating k liya tha aur kuch nai.

Yusra Jamal: 

Is qisam k masayal ko manzar-e-aam pe aisi he nahi lay atey in ko awaam k samnay lanay or unko khabardar karne k kuch usoolozawabit hotay hain.lakeen maya ne in usolon ko khass ahmiyat nahi di isi wajha se aj subke samnay beth kar mafyan mangne ki naubat agayi hai.agar Maya k pass saboot thay tu usne  pehlay kiu nahi dhikahye??yeh sawal subke zehnon main gardish karahay hain....

 Syeda Anees Zehra:

Personally I opposed that action by Maya khan.Media persons haven’t a right to interfere in personal activities. To go on Date is a curse for our society but to expose it on media in that way is not helping to solve these problem. Media have responsibility to set positive trend but this dating trend also given by media. Media gave this way to youth and now they are doing investigating on it .In my perception this is attack on public privacy. If youth move towards these dating culture so media is also responsible for it as well as their families also responsible of it. Families have right to check and balance not media to exposed this bad factor of our society because our media is now globally seen by whole world this kind of reports imaging a bad picture of our society. We have to hide these bad things from world not to exposed it. If house has dirty so we have to clean or hide from other not to invite them to see your weakness. Being a youth I opposed strongly that action by maya khan she hasn’t a right to expose that dark side of youth she could do table discussion on it which is a only best solution to stop this dating culture.

Thank you

interesting and unique festivals of the world

"Zindagi na milegi dobara" dekh kr mujhe khayal aya k dunya mein kitne ajeebo ghareeb tehwar(festivals) manaye jate hain. mein kuch dino se apne blog mein likhne k lye topic ki talash mein thi bs phir mene socha k isi ko apna agla topic bnao aur search kar k ap logon ki maloomat mein izafa karun.
Is dunya mein hazaro quomein aur bht se mazahib ko manne wale baste hain. har mazhab aur qoum k apne apne tehwar hote hain jo k bohat josho kharosh se manaye jate hain in mein kuch is qadar ajeebo ghareeb hote hain k hr koi in mein dilchaspi leta hai.
opar jis movie ka mene zikr kya hai wo spain mein bnayi gayi hai. "Spain" mein ek town hai 'Bunol' jo k  'Tomatina' nami tehwar ki waja se bohat mashhor hai. ye mela August k akhri Wednesday ko manaya jata hai. waha k log ek dosre par us waqt tak tomatoes ki barish karte rehte hain jb tk in ka maleeda nhi ban jata yhan tak k roads par har taraf tomatoes ka maleeda bikhra nazar ata hai.

                                                    
"Italy" ka ek town 'Evera' maltoo ki jang k hawale se mashhor hai. is anokhey tehwar mein ek jang ki yad manane k lye hazaro log February mein har saal 3 din tak ek dosre par maltey barsate hain jis se saari sarhken aur gallyan malto se bhar jati hain pori dunya se bari tadad mein log is anokhi jang ko dekhne k lye atey hain.
Isi tarah 'California' (America) mein 3 din 'lehsan(garlic) mela' manaya jata hai. is tehwar mein lehsan wale khane bnaye jate hain yhan tak k ice-cream bhi lehsan se bnayi jati hai. is mein bhi bohat se log sharek hote hain.

                                               
"South Dekota" ka ek chota sa shehr 'Clark' aalu ki pedawar k hawale se America mein shohrat rakhta hai. yhan har saal 5 august ko 'youm-e-aalu' manaya jata hai. is ka aghaz 1972 mein hua tha. is roz yhan har taraf aalu hi aalu nazar ate hain. Aalu k is mele mein aalu pakane, sajane aur aalu se mujasme bhi bnaye jate hain is k ilawa aalu boil kr k pees kr uske mixture mein wrestling bhi hoti hai aur aalu ki daldal mein log ek dosre ko girane ki koshish karte hain.

                                                


"Japan" mein har saal 'aatish bazi(firework)' ka tehwar manaya jata hai. ye tehwar 400 saalon se Japan mein manaya ja rha hai. "India" k do dehat aese hain jahan mohabbat ka izhar galyan de kr kya jata hai aur is maqsad k lye galyon ka tehwar 'kajri' manaya jata hai. is ka aghaz dono dehat k rehne walo k darmyan galat fehmi ki waja se hua aur bad mein ise izhare mohabbat ki shakal dedi gayi.
"Cambodia" mein September mein do hafte ka 'roohon ka mela' hota hai. is mein log soraj nikalne se pehle khule asmaan k neche jama hokar bare bare lakri k dhol bajate hain aur un lakhon afrad ki roohon ko khush karne k lye khane sajaye jate hain jo 'polpot' k 4 saala zalmana dour mein qatal kye gaye the.
"Nigeria" mein har saal February' March mein sb se bari machli(fish) pakarne ka muqabla hota hai is muqable ko 'Argungu festival' kaha jata hai. Isi tarah dichasp races ka bhi muqabla hota hai 2006 mein "China" mein mote logon ki race hui thi jo k 150kilo wazni aurat ne jeet li thi.
"Finland" mein bhi ek anokhi race hoti hai jis mein shohar apni biwyon ko kandho pr utha kr dorte hain bari tadad mein log ise dekhne ate hain.


In sb se andaza hota hai k dunya mein kese kese log abad hain aur khushi manane k inke kitne ajeebo gharee andaz hote hain behr haal ye bohat hi dilchasp aur tafreh ka zarya hote hain.

Dangerous Spoon..

Everyone had seen above image in their kitchen utensils but here i am discussing another spoon which is known as "Chamcha". Chamcha/Chamchi is a person who uses a lot buttering to promote his/her self interest.In Politics,every politician has one chamcha/chamchi but these people also found in the banks,factories,universities,collages,school etcectra.Where they made his/her boss feel proud at every stupid thoughts or work that he has done very well.Four or five people(Chamchas) standing in support to say "No! he/she is always right " while they know that he/she had done wrong.Foremost qualities of those Chamcha/chamchi is backbiting and an unsteady mind.When they see no beneficial response towards their plans ,he/she starts following some other groups and use their qualities as tactics.Behind every conflict and fighting ,their is 50% chances that the chamcha/chamchi playing their role very beautifully.Be aware of  these Chamcha/chamchi before its to late...... ;)           

                             Sycophancy (chamchagiri) is a hard work and why not? chamcha/chamchi  have to run after their boss.Our so called President Asif Ali Zardari was ill and admitted in the Dubai hospital,at that time P.M yousuf raza gillani ,rehman malik and babar awan played a great role as "chamcha". Zardari's visit was based on the follow up medical check-up but their chamchas made it heart attack and Paralytic attack.These rumors spread to safe President from growing tension of Memo-gate scandal...After all we have to give respect to them because "we choose them to ruined us".

My “Ys”

I extremely feel proud of myself from the very first day of mine on this earth. Because I prefer to ask question or challenge decisions instead of following people blindly. This habit is now deeply rooted in me. I still remember when I questioned my parents for the first time and rant when my body temperature was hot and I started shouting and complaining to my mom dad that why my room is not air conditioned? I yelled when my grand maa tightly wrapped me in towel.

Similarly, when I was grown up and my schooling started I made a huge pyramid of queries that; why people go to school? Why this boring breakfast I have to eat? Why this horrible teacher is teaching me? Which super genius person had created this homework? Why this ugly uniform is necessary for student and why teachers don’t wear uniform? I yelled! Why “B” comes after “A”? I cried a lot looking at subject books. I questioned my mom what is the purpose of these so many subjects? Why I can’t study only one? I blustered! Name the “Brain Box” who had created the concept of schooling?

And when I entered in a college life which known as “Tulla Life” I   was so happy and felt like a bird flying in the high sky. I thought I am no more restricted now. But no; the reality was too much different that made me angry. I violently reacted on every issue because that was all same as before. Same homework burden, headache of class tests, boring lectures and cruel teachers all as it was in my school life. Actually I studied from Private College. I mentioned about my college because I knew about the followers of my Blog. Hahaha!  I am just kidding. Keep reading.

One day when I was fed up because of my board exams my mom told me that in university life everything will be different from present one. So, I studied a lot to get good marks in exams and for getting the title of “University Student”. I did same as my mom told me to get my dreams come true. A life free of queries, restrictions, free from loads of homework, torture full lectures and so-called innocent teachers.

2010 is a memorable year in my life. In this year I entered in university with the dreams that my all “Ys” will be answered here. But again I am disappointed because nobody succeeded up till now in giving satisfactory answers to my “Ys”. No one answer me that why we are locked in Jinnah Jail till 2:50 & if anybody needs to go back she should run from pillar to post. They think that this is not enough punishment for genius like us. So they change the examination policy and burdened us with the assignments. I failed to understand that why our beloved elders considered us as“Japani machines”? What is the reason behind the revenge which our beloved teachers love to take from us? What we innocent people have done?  I am little bit confuse why I am telling you people all this?

Wait, wait, wait, I remember I have to write something light in mood that’s why I am narrating you my “Ys” story. In this semester I started blogging. Our lovely teacher asked us to write whatever we want. But the point is that last week my teacher asked me to write some "Halka Phulka” I didn’t get what is halka phulka? And a friend of mine, she is truly a copycat. She also wrote on my blog post “ab kuch halka phulka hojaye?”  I asked her if she want “TUC”. “Halki phulki bhook main halka phulka tuc.” any ways forget it .I will handle her. She has a turn of blog post tomorrow.

I really believe that with the passage of time my pyramid of queries is increasing and soon I will reach with my “Y’s” to the height of “Eiffel Tower.” What do you say is it good enough for “HALKA PHULKA”?

Yaadgaar Lamhaat ........!!!!

Har ek ki zindagi main koi na koi yaadgaar lamhaat hotay hai jaisay aksar insan ki zindagi main kuch aise lamhaat atay hain jo wo kabhi nahi bhool sakta aur who uski zindagi kay yadgaar lamhaat ban jatay hain meri zindagi main bhi kuch aisay lamhaat aye hain kay jisay main kabhi nahi bhoola sakti….

Hua yun kay 2007 main 12 Rabi ul awwal ko mere taya nay mjh say kaha kay wo,unki bewi yani meri taayi aur phoopo Umrah karnay jayen gay...chun kay mera passport bhi bana hua tha is liye main nay bhi aisay hi bol diya kay main bhi chaloon gi ap logon kay sath mujhe us waqt bilkul bhi andaaza nahi tha k Allah Taa'Alah meri us baat ko such kar dikhaen gay..jab main nay apnay abbu say iss baat ka zikar kia to unho nay bola kay han zaroor jao..us waqt mera bhai buhat chota tha is lye meri ammi ka jana thora mushkil tha is liye main nay apnay abbu say bhi sath chalnay kay liye kaha....kuch din baad hum logo ka janay ka intezaam ho gaya..meri to khushi ka koi thikana hi nahi tha..kyun kay main nay kabhi bhi yeh nahi socha tha kay mujhe bhi wo jagah dekhna naseeb hogi jahan per buhat hi khush naseeb log jatay hain...15 july 2007 ka ticket confirm hua...main buhat zayada pur josh thi aur wahan janay kay liye din ginnay lagi..aur akhir kaar woh din agaya jis din ka mjhe intezaar tha...15 july 2007 ko shaam 6 bje PIA say humari rawangi thi...hum log mukarar waqt pay airport phonch gaye lekin airport phonchnay kay baad pata chala kay flight 6 bje ki jagah ab 8 bje rawaana ho gi...hum log launch main ja kar beth gaye..us kay baad hum logo nay maghrib ki namaz bhi airport pe hi ada ki..8 bje hum log Jeddah kay liye rawaana huye aur jahaaz main hi Mekaat kay makaam per Umrah karnay ki neeyat ki aur raat 12 bje tak Jeddah phonch gaye

Wahan say phir ba-zarya bus Makkah 2 bje tak Makkah phonchay hotel aur samaan kamray main rakh kar Haram Shareef chalay gaye...wahan phonch kar apni ankhon per yakeen nahi araha tha...itna rooh parwar manzar tha kay usay lafzon main bayaan karna buhat mushkil hai wahan qadam rakhtay hi itna sukoon mila aur aisa laga kay zindagi main jitnay bhi maslay hain woh sab khtam ho gaye hain...hum logo nay Haram Shareef kay gird tawaaf kia aur us kay baad Safa aur Marwa kay beech Saae ki...agar main zayada chal loon to meri tangon main buhat dard shooru ho jata hai aur Safa aur Marwa kay darmiyan ka rasta buhat taweel hai mujhe darr bhi lag raha tha kay kahin dard na shooru ho jaye lekin ALLAH ka shukar hai kay mujhe bilkul bhi dard nahi hua..us kay baad hum logo nay Fajr ki namaz ada ki...7 bje tak hum log wapis hotel gaye thori dair aaraam kiya phr Zohr ki namaz kay liye Haram Shareef chale gye...Makkah main hum logo nay phle 3 din kayaam kia phir 7 din hum logo nay Madina main guzara wahan pe Mukhtalif Makamaat ki ziyaarat ki...wahan ek hafta guzarnay kay baad hum log wapis Makkah agaye aur wahan mazeed 3 din guzarnay kay baad jab wapis anay kay liye hum log Jeddah airport phonchay wahan mujhe ek baat ka buhat dukh hua kay wahan Pakistanio ki bilkul bhi izat ki nigah say nahi dekha jata airport kay afsaraun nay sirf Pakistani honay ki wajah se buhat maslay kiye bil akhir tamam maslay hal karnay kay baad hum log 29 july 2007 ko shaam 6 bje wapis Karachi agaye Makkah aur Madina main guzara hua har ek lamha meray liye yadgaar hai jisay main zindagi bhar nahi bhool sakti..main Allah Taa'Alah ka jitna bhi shukar ada karoon utna kum hai kyun kay us nay mujhe itni kum umr main apnay ghar ka deedaar karaya...Allah yeh din dekhna sab ko naseeb karey Ameen...!!!!

BE ORIGINAL..

Nature give identity to every human. which is different from one another. This identity be with you from your brith to till your death. wherever you live your identity will be with you forever. 

Philosopher,sociologist and scientist done lots of research on personal identity but still its mysterious for every one.A/c to philosoper any thing which belong to itself is a identity.For any human their name is a identity for them which give a reconization in a crowd it is calling code for every person.but in digital era humans are losing their identity and have a fake reconization.we are breathing in a era of technology where internet satellites social networking, cell phones and wifi are necessity.These all thing brought revolution in our society and in lives. Globalization brought peoples closer but create a gap among their relatives their values and custom in other side.Through these technologies we connect with a different peoples but along with it these technologies impacting negative on our behaviour or on our society.previous few decades telecommunication and statelittes technology upgrade or improved itself surprisingly. today our identity are our debut card,email ids Sim card or our social networking account. we are became habitual of it if these thing get steal we became so worried regarding its misuse or regarding our personality. these all thing became important for us instead of our family terms and blood relation,. account hack is a nightmare for any person misuse of it impact of their personality in a negative sense .today if our cell phones and laptop give battery down sign we get worried so much n get tensed about the lose of any import news or message or any updates on socail networking.In past our activities was very concerned with our surrounded people but now we re concerned with our digital world. A/c to research our youth are spending their precious time on internet with a dual personality or a fake identity on global satelitte map.they are less concerning with their studies,work,and their future.they are avoiding their families they are always in stressed regarding their socail networking activities. A/c to psychologist these all thing brought youth mental approach towards negativity.we Ar losing our real identity or our norms and tradition and our values youth are a pillar of any society our its losing their orginality or reconizaiton its a billion worth question Do technology facilitate you or stressed you? Do your name is your identity or @html,yahoo facebook,twitter is your identification?

Be original instead of Fake...