BE ORIGINAL..

Nature give identity to every human. which is different from one another. This identity be with you from your brith to till your death. wherever you live your identity will be with you forever. 

Philosopher,sociologist and scientist done lots of research on personal identity but still its mysterious for every one.A/c to philosoper any thing which belong to itself is a identity.For any human their name is a identity for them which give a reconization in a crowd it is calling code for every person.but in digital era humans are losing their identity and have a fake reconization.we are breathing in a era of technology where internet satellites social networking, cell phones and wifi are necessity.These all thing brought revolution in our society and in lives. Globalization brought peoples closer but create a gap among their relatives their values and custom in other side.Through these technologies we connect with a different peoples but along with it these technologies impacting negative on our behaviour or on our society.previous few decades telecommunication and statelittes technology upgrade or improved itself surprisingly. today our identity are our debut card,email ids Sim card or our social networking account. we are became habitual of it if these thing get steal we became so worried regarding its misuse or regarding our personality. these all thing became important for us instead of our family terms and blood relation,. account hack is a nightmare for any person misuse of it impact of their personality in a negative sense .today if our cell phones and laptop give battery down sign we get worried so much n get tensed about the lose of any import news or message or any updates on socail networking.In past our activities was very concerned with our surrounded people but now we re concerned with our digital world. A/c to research our youth are spending their precious time on internet with a dual personality or a fake identity on global satelitte map.they are less concerning with their studies,work,and their future.they are avoiding their families they are always in stressed regarding their socail networking activities. A/c to psychologist these all thing brought youth mental approach towards negativity.we Ar losing our real identity or our norms and tradition and our values youth are a pillar of any society our its losing their orginality or reconizaiton its a billion worth question Do technology facilitate you or stressed you? Do your name is your identity or @html,yahoo facebook,twitter is your identification?

Be original instead of Fake...

don't forget what you are worth...

women are the significant part of our society. they are a completing unit of a home and family. Women play a dynamic role in the formulation, success and activities of the society. A woman has strength that amazes man. she can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens. she can work 18 hours a day. she hold happiness, love. ALLAH made her so soft but strong. she is the favourite of ALLAH's heart.. she smiles when feeling like screaming. she sings when she feels like crying, cries when happy, and laughs when she is afraid.she fights for what she believes in, stands up against injustice. She give herself so her family can thrive. Her love is unconditional. she cries when her kids are victorious. Her heart is broken when a next of kin or friend dies. But she finds the strength to get on with life. Islam is the first religion, which has accepted the importance of women and has given them full rights in all fields. women have clearly defined rights in Islam, these have been set out in the holy Quran and Sunnah. The holy prophet(p.b.u.h) has said: "verily, the paradise lies under the feet of your mother." Islamic law provides a marked difference between women's and men's role, rights, and obligations. Islam is only religion which give respect, independence and protection to the women in the world.The number of Britons choosing to become Muslims has nearly doubled in the past decade. The study by Kevin Brice, of Swansea university found 5,200 people converted into Islam in UK last year. A survey was conducted of 122 converts last year which showed 56% were white British, with women making up 62% of respondents.The average age at conversion was just over 27.These are the example that Islam is the best religion which give respect and independence to the women..
22-year old Aisha Uddin, who embraced Islam 2 years ago, is another example. She took an interest in religion at school, and started quietly visiting her local mosque to find out more.
"Islam caught my eye and I wanted to look further into it. The people, the culture and I carried on studying it and studying it, even after school. Living in Birmingham, I was surrounded by the religion."
she says she spent years finding out more about Islam before committing to the religion, changing her appearance and starting to pray 5 times a day.
"Life is changed dramatically, I was a rebel before, I was always getting into trouble at home, going out and staying out-not trying hard enough at school. Then when I became Muslim, I sort of calmed down. I wanted to stay at home studying on the internet or reading books. And I'm more happy than I was- I'm proud of who I'm, I've got a certain identity."
Then why why we want to be a westernise? why we want to adopt western culture? Islam has given us liberty with certain limits the limits which are in our favour, for our protection then why we want the liberty like the west while the western women are becoming Muslim on large number. woman is the best creation of ALLAH, she is soft, strong, caring, loving, intelligent, she cures herself when sick. She knows that a kiss and a hug can heal a broken heart.
There is only one thing wrong with her!
She forgets what she is worth..

BEAUTY

why do I always look so ugly in photographs?? why am I not a photogenic and look as pretty as the models and actress do?? sounds familiar, doesn't it? If you think the same way then stop at once you might not be aware but these fashionable models and actress aren't even close to what you call photogenic. you are far prettier than most because their beauty is "FAKE".
Most of us are unaware of the preparations that are made before the photo shoots to make models look "charming". First of all they wear designer clothes. Secondly, their shoots require hours and hours of make-up. It is not an ordinary make up, but it's more like a make over done by the finest make-up artists who spend half their lives practising how to change looks. The amount of make-up applied is not just a little bit of this little bit of that but a thick layer of beauty products that totally hide the scars and wrinkles.why we compare ourself with them? while the real beauty is inside you, in your heart, in your words, it's a goodness. Thirdly, their photographs are retouched over and over with the latest computer software, until they succeed in making 50 years to look like a 20+ so one thing is clear now, looking at fashion magazine and sighing do nothing but only makes you hate yourself. what you do, the way you think, makes you beautiful. Next time, remember, you are better looking and a better person, and that's most important.
Be happy and enjoy the gift of life that ALLAH has given you.

kyun k zindagi bohat mukhtasir hai.....

Ksi ne kaha hai k "Dunyia ke adhe masael hal hojayen agar log ek dosre ki baten karne k bajaye ek dosre se bat karen." lekin kya karen k hamare mashre ka almya yhi rha hai k aam tor par mil beth kr amne samne bat kar k apas k masael hal karne aur galat fehmyan dor karne k bajaye peeth peche ye kam bare zoq o shoq se sr anjam dete hain aur phir isse narazgyan barhti hain. baat rishte daron ki ho ya doston ki ya phir miya biwi, ki nok jhok barh jaye tu apas k talluqat mutasir hote hain. dil mein ek dosre k lye bugz, keena, hasado nafrat rakh kar rishto se la talluqi baratna rishto mein doryan barhane k mutradif hai in doryon aur faslon se kuch hasil ni hota balke insaan khud akela pan mehsos karne lagta hai. 

yun tu dono taraf k logon ko ye zeb ni deta k wo peeth peche aik dosre ki burayi karen kyun k ye geebat k zamre mein ajata hai lekin agar koi ap k sath aesa rawayya rakhta hai tu us ki dagar pr chalne k bajaye sulah mein pehl karni chahye, apne gusse pr qabo rakhna chahye, apni zaban se koi aesi baat kehne se gurez karen jo dosre ka dil dukhane ka sabab bane kyun k sakht lehja aur zaban se nikle hue lafz kbhi wapis ni ate. apne qareebi rishto mein, doston mein, class fellows mein galat fehmyon ko tol de kr dosron ko baten banane ka mouqa fraham ni krna chahye aur sb se ehem bat apni galtyon ko tasleem karlena chahye isse koi chota ni hojata ya izzate mein kami ni ajati balke dosre k samne apki izzat aur barh jati hai. 

Apne khuloos aur mohabbat se in faslon ko samet len kyun k ye zindagi bohat mukhtasir hai is mein larae jhagron aur narazgyon ki koi gunjaesh ni. khud bhi khush rahen aur dosron ko bhi iski targeeb den. 

Allah hum sb ko apas mein behtreen talluqat qaym rakhne ki taufeeq ata kare. (Ameen)

tere ehhd mai dill e zaar k sab hi ikhtiyar chaly gy..!!

Ak Nazar Meri Taraf....!!!

اک نظر میری طرف...!!!

                         میری آنکھوں کو غور سے دیکھو اور پھر میری ضرورتوں کو سمجھنے کی کوشش کرو-اے انسان تو بہت  ظالم ہے ، تجھے صرف اپنی آسایشوں کی پرواہ ہے-مجھے بھی پیار کی ضرورت ہے کبھی میرا بھی خیال کرو -جب بھی میں اپنی   بلّی کو دیکھتی ہوں ،مجھے اسکی آنکھوں میں یہی اک شکایت نظر آتی ہے حلانکےمیں اپنی بلّی کا بہت خیال رکھتی ہوں ،اسکا نام Maggy ہے -وہ جب بھی میرے پاس آتی ہے ،صرف مجھے دیکھتی رہتی ہے شاید پوچھنا چاہتی ہےکے اسکا simba  کہاں گیا؟ اسے چھوڑ کے   کیوں چلا گیا ؟ اسکے بچوں کو میں اس سے الگ کیوں کر دیتی ہوں؟ پھر وہ اپنی مخصوس آواز میں رونا شروع کر دیتی ہے Maggy  کا رونا ہر کوئی نہیں سمجھ پاتا کیوں کے دوسری جنگلی بلیاں بھی ایسی ہی آوازے  نکالتی ہیں پر اس وقت وہ اپنے بچوں کو  کھانے کے لئے بلاتی ہیں یا پھر کسی  ناگہانی  آفت سے  خبردار کرہی ہوتی ہیں- Maggy بھی ایسا ہی  کرتی  ہے پر جب وہ خوش ہوتی ہے-

                     Maggy کی آنکھیں بہت خوبصورت ہیں -آنکھوں کا رنگ بلکل کنچوں کی مانند ہے،بڑی ہونےکےساتھ  ساتھ  گہری بھی ہیں-نیند پوری کرنے کے بعد ایسے شان سے انگڑائی لیتی ہے جیسے کسی محل کی شہزادی ہو ، چلتی ہے تو لگتا ہے کے ramp پر کوئی لڑکی cat walk کرہی ہے-اپنی مخملی سی دم ہوا میں لہراتی ہے تو کسی لڑکی  کے دوپٹہ اڑنے کا گمان ہوتا ہے-کھانا کھاتے ہی ہاتھ پیر چاٹ کے صاف کرتی ہےکیوں کےزبان کی صورت میں اسکا رومال اللہ نے اسکےمنہ کے اندر ہی رکھا ہے- پہلے فرمانبردار بچوں کی طرح میری ہر بات مانتی تھی اور سنتی بھی تھی پر اب وہ تھک گئی  ہے اور ناراضگی کا اظہار کرنا شروع کر دیا ہے اسلئے میری ہر بات کو اک کان سے سن کر د وسرے کان سے نکال دیتی ہےاور منہ پھیرلیتی  ہے،اچھلتے کودتے Maggy کے بچے اسکے ساتھ کھیلنے کی کوشش کرتے ہیں تو انھیں جھڑک دیتی ہے اور وہ منظرنہایت  دلکش  لگتا ہے-اب   Maggy  پانچ سال کی ھوگئی ہے مطلب بوڑھی ھوگئی ہے،چاہے انسان ہو یا جانور بوڑھاپے میں اکیلے نہیں رہ سکتے  اور اب اسے simba  کی ضرورت ہے جو شاید مر چکا ہے-

Why Balochistan?

What about the ongoing struggle between Israeli and Palestinian? Which was began in the early 20^th century. Why the human rights activists does not support voice for those poor Palestinians? What about the Korean Peninsula which was occupied by the Soviet Union in the North and the United States in the South in 1945-1949. Why these issues are put under the rag? Why our sentimental Americans are not concerned about them? If they do not pull the loads of human rights, who will do that? The miserable Kashmiris are looking towards them for their support but our very own Americans keep the Kashmir issue on the back burner and are increasing voice for the right to self-determination for the people of Balochistan. Why the blood of innocent Kashmiris is of no importance? Why only Balochistan appears as the major issue to be solved in the Congress of United States?

Congressman Dana Rohrabacher had last week tabled the resolution which said the people of Balochistan were being subjected to violence and extra-judicial killings and they had the “right to self-determination and to their own independent country; and they should be afforded the opportunity to choose their own status”. Who has given the Americans the rights to interfere in our internal matters? Why they love to hamper in our country’s affairs?

Today I really thankful to Allah that Pakistan and its political parties continued to show its rage on the tabling of a resolution on Balochistan in the House of Representative. As usually the Interior Minister Rehman Malik has once again blamed foreign elements for provoking violence in Balochistan and trying to separate it from Pakistan. To some extend today. I agree with his statement.


Pakistan Tehreek-i-Insaf (PTI) chairman Imran Khan condemned the resolution on Balochistan presented in the House of Representatives in the United States and called it as a breach on Pakistan’s sovereignty. The senior leader of PTI Mukhdoom Javed Hashmi said that human rights were being violated in Balochistan and that the mandatory government should take stern notice of the issue. But Javed Hashmi and Mukhdoom Shah Mehmood Qureshi have also expressed concern over the resolution by the US Congress on Balochistan and termed it involvement in the country’s affairs.

This is all my personal perception that not because of human rights and geopolitics, but for the “the tremendous deposits of oil, gas, and minerals. Balochistan has become the major reason why it has appeared on the international radar.”